BACHELOR INVITATIONS AND BACHELOR PARTY INFORMATION

Bachelor Party Invitations - Etiquette

When should the RSVP'S go out? The bachelor party invitations should go out at least one to two months prior  to the party. The rule of thumb is that if you are going out of town for the party, give the guys at least 2 months to prepare for the trip, especially if they have a significant other or kids. I have heard and have received bachelor party invitations sometimes 3 months in advance, especially if it is in Vegas since the rooms sell out so fast. You can also by-pass sending out bachelor party invitations and collect all the groomsmen emails and phone numbers so you can call and email them about the bachelor party.

Paying? Get the money up-front! Just because you are planning the party does not mean you have to pay for the bachelor party, even the bachelor party invitations, by yourself! Copy this page and show other guys who think that they don't need to chip in that THEY DO! You are doing your part in planning the party and each guy should chip in some money. It would be great to add up the possible expenses, including everyone paying for the bachelor (who should not pay for anything). Give each guy the amount you need and state that they need to pay in advance or when they show up! There are so many occasions when guys may say "well I don't have the money", "I will pay you later", "I forgot my wallet but I promise to send it to you". Most likely you will not get money from them and so it is important so you can have a good time that you don't have to think about the money so get it up front!

What should we do? Make sure it fits what the Groom likes since it is really his party, even though some of the guys may forget! Whether you go away, to a strip club, a bar, or at someone's house, the party will be fun with all the guys hangin together!

It is customary to say a few words and make a toast (if you are the planner of the party). Rehearse some lines before the party starts, it doesn't have to be long. It will leave a lasting impression on your good friend.

Take Pictures - But Not of EVERYTHING! Pictures are a great way to capture the bachelor party. Make sure to take pictures of all the guys having a great time! . Just make sure not to take pictures of anything that will get the bachelor or his mates in trouble since you don't want these pictures haunting the bachelor a few years later when his wife finds them!

Don't hang out with chicks too long! The reason for a bachelor party is to have fun with your friends and not to go scam with the ladies! Make sure to remember you are there for your friend. This is not to say a little flirting would be fun (for the non-married guys and those who live on the edge :), just make sure to hang all together. If a guy decides to go off with some lady-friend, leave him be (unless she is drunk and needs assistance) and don't give him a hard time unless he is being a "Larry". Your job is to make sure the Bachelor has fun.

Drinking - Drinking can be fun, although don't let the guys get the Bachelor too drunk since he will feel like crap the next day or even that night and not be able to be a strong part of his own bachelor party. Remember, you want him to be able to remember some of the evening. If one guy is trying to get the bachelor too drunk, try to stop it with some support from the other guys. This is not to say a buzzed bachelor is not funny and some funny memories can come out of it, just be somewhat responsible. For some really cool bachelor party drinking products click here!

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