Bachelor and Bachelorette Party 2010

Los Angeles, CA - March 2nd, 2010 - The bachelor and bachelorette party season is starting strong even in a weak economy, as the beginning of the wedding season has begun. Michael Lasky, owner of http://www.bachelorpartyfun.com and http://www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, the largest network of pre-wedding party websites states, "We are noticing more innovative and creative ideas this year already and have added some excellent new ideas for the bachelor(ette) party season."

Some of the more interesting bachelor and bachelorette party ideas are exotic dance lessons, passion parties and hiring a male or female adult star to chaparone one's bachelor or bachelorette party! "You can now live like a rock star and have just as crazy of a bachelor party as you see in 'The Hangover', " states Lasky.

It is projected that Lasky's websites will receive over 5 million visitors this year looking for new bachelor party and bachelorette ideas. One can only assume as the economy picks up, so will the wild last night out parties!

About I-Volution, Inc. Located in Southern California, I-Volution, Inc. owns one the largest pre-wedding party website networks, including http://www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, http://www.bachelorpartyfun.com, http://www.bridesmaid101.com and http://www.groomsmen411.com. I-Volution, Inc. is considered a top portal in the pre-wedding party industry.

Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Bliss

LOS ANGELES, CA, February 16, 2010 -- Michael Lasky, owner of I-Volution, Inc., who owns and operates websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com, two of the largest bachelor(ette) party websites in a network of pre-wedding party and bridal sites is tying the knot for the first time after helping supply close to 100,000 bachelor and bachelorette parties over the last 10 years.

When asked about bachelor and bachelorette parties for he and his fiancé, Lynnette, his reply was just as expected. Lasky stated, "Oh yes, Las Vegas here we come! These will definitely be two parties that you would want to be a fly on the wall!" Lasky explained that with a large group of family and friends, they will be using many of the companies found on their websites to help with their planning. He adds, "I have a great relationship with all the companies listed on www.bachelorettepartyfun and www.bachelorpartyfun.com and finally look forward to personally utilize their amazing services for my own bachelor party. The girls will definitely be heading to go see 'Thunder Down Under,' or 'American Storm', and for the boys, well I can't rule out a Papillon Helicopter Tour, a ride from our friends at Exotic Limos Las Vegas going to McFadden's for some drinks and then a visit from our friends over at Sin City Strippers to just name a few of the festivities." The bachelor and bachelorette parties are set to take place late in 2010.

I-Volution's network of bachelor and bachelorette party sites now include a vast array of choices and free directories; from renting an adult star chaperone and party planning through www.partiesxtreme.com, exotic dance lessons, spas, clubs, exotic dancers, male revues, restaurants, and bars. They also personally warehouse and ship over 500 fun gag-gifts to help supply bachelor and bachelorette parties with everything they need. When asked, Lasky explained that from the increasing trend in the past years, it appears that his network of pre-wedding sites are on track to have over 4.5 million visitors this year.

About I-Volution, Inc. Located in Southern California, I-Volution, Inc. owns one the largest pre-wedding party website networks, including www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, www.bachelorpartyfun.com, www.bridesmaid101.com and www.groomsmen411.com. I-Volution, Inc. is considered a top portal in the pre-wedding party industry.

Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Worldly Advice
Top Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Firm Updates Their Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Eco-Friendly and International 'Last Night Out' Portal

September 22nd, 2009, Los Angeles - I-Volution, Inc., which owns websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com, the two largest and longest running bachelor party and bachelorette party sites in a network of pre-wedding party websites has created the largest international portal for the world to share free ideas, planning and bachelorette party eco-friendly supplies.

"We want to offer the most in bachelorette party games, bachelorette party supplies and bachelorette party ideas to our 4.5 million visitors a year that visit us from every country," states Michael Lasky, President of I-Volution, Inc. Lasky reports that he uses recycled boxes and biodegradable materials to do his share for the environment. With an average of 9,500 orders per year, this is a commendable action in keeping the world green.

The bachelor and bachelorette party sites also include an international directory to Hen and Stagg party planners across the world in making it easier for anyone to plan their 'Last Night Out'. Lasky states, "We will continue to make more contributions to the world and web which hopefully will be followed by others."

Lean and Green
Bachelor Party Planning: The Economical and Earth-Friendly Way

Michael Lasky
I-Volution, Inc
9420 Reseda Boulevard, Suite 510, Northridge, CA 91324
818-718-1104
Michael@bachelorettepartyfun.com
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

So you are planning a bachelor party during one of the worst economic times of our century. Many bridesmaids or their significant others may be losing their jobs and/or watching their money very closely. We felt it would be helpful to give you our 411 on how to have an economical (yet still fun) bachelor party. We also felt it would be helpful to point out how to stay green and do our share to protect the environment. Below, we have provided some bachelor party tips in these areas:

1) Have The Bachelor Party Close to Home - Travel can get expensive when you take the flight, room, food, drinks, etc into account. Have a home party with cute bachelor party decorations or go to a near by restaurant and/or bar with a sober driver or bachelor party limo or party bus.

2) Ask For Group Discounts - Many places will give you a bachelor party volume discount as they want your business more than ever. Use your bachelor party girl power to get great deals since it is a buyer's market and many venues and services are struggling.

3) Plan Ahead and Stay Organized - Make sure to start planning your bachelor party way in advance so you can organize and know exactly what you are doing. Statistically, those doing last minute planning spend more. We also see many people at www.bachelorpartyfun.com order at the last minute and know they will be paying more for shipping or their plans out since they did not have time to get discounts or have a plan of "Last Night Out" action!

4) E-Vite Instead of Invite - Get everyone's emails and send out a bachelor party invitation e-vite, instead of spending money on paper bachelor party invitations.

5) Create Your Own Bachelor Party Decorations - Get some colored construction paper, glitter, glue and make your own bachelor party decorations. Write "Last Night Out", "Bride-2-B", and other cute sayings on paper rolls. Make a pre-planning party out of it which is fun and a great ice breaker to meet the other bridesmaids. Staying Green: Make sure to use recycled paper.

6) Pre-Party Before Going Out - It is much more economical to purchase Costco/ Wallmart/ Smart&Final appetizers and alcohol than to go out and pay for it at some bar or restaurant. Have pre-bachelor party festivities before going out on the town. This will save everyone some money and still be lots of fun.

7) Get Some Hunk Films Instead of Hiring a Male Stripper - Have fun with the girls without the meat. If you are going to hire a female stripper, check out our entertainment directory to find a sexy and reasonably priced male dancer. Also make sure to ask what the exact rates/tips are so you don't feel slighted by how much it actually may cost.

8) Make Your Own Bachelor Party Games - If you go out, play games such as quarters, "I Never" as well as tell funny stories about the bachelor. Check out our bachelor party games section or go to our reasonably priced bachelor party games.

9) Have a Bachelor Party During the Week - There are much better deals during the week than on holidays and weekends. Call ahead and ask for the place's deals. Any Friday and Saturday bachelor party will most likely cost the group more.

10) Supply and Demand - Call a few bachelor party venues you are interested in and have them compete for your business. See who offers you the best package rate and let them know you are calling around. See if you get complimentary appetizers, meals or desserts for the bachelor and maid of honor. Also ask if they take discount cards like AAA or see about coupons (which many times you can find coupon codes on the internet).

You can also contact the bridesmaids early and see if anyone has hook-ups for any nice place. Maybe a club entry, bottle service, discounted limo, etc. Work your bachelor party magic!

I hope this bachelor party tip information was helpful and that you have a great Last Night Out! Please write to us and let us know how helpful this section is by emailing us at bachelorette@bachelorettepartyfun.com

I-Volution, Inc. Receives 2008 Best of Northridge Award
U.S. Local Business Association’s Award Plaque Honors the Achievement

WASHINGTON D.C., August 7, 2008 -- I-Volution, Inc. has been selected for the 2008 Best of Northridge Award in the Mail Order category by the U.S. Local Business Association (USLBA).

The USLBA "Best of Local Business" Award Program recognizes outstanding local businesses throughout the country. Each year, the USLBA identifies companies that they believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and community.

Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2008 USLBA Award Program focused on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the USLBA and data provided by third parties.

About U.S. Local Business Association (USLBA)
U.S. Local Business Association (USLBA) is a Washington D.C. based organization funded by local businesses operating in towns, large and small, across America. The purpose of USLBA is to promote local business through public relations, marketing and advertising.

The USLBA was established to recognize the best of local businesses in their community. Our organization works exclusively with local business owners, trade groups, professional associations, chambers of commerce and other business advertising and marketing groups. Our mission is to be an advocate for small and medium size businesses and business entrepreneurs across America.

About I-Volution, Inc
Located in Southern California, I-Volution, Inc owns the largest pre- wedding party websites which include www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, www.bachelorpartyfun.com, www.bridesmaid101.com and www.groomsmen411.com. I-Volution, Inc is considered a top portal of the pre-wedding party industry.

Michael Lasky
I-Volution, Inc
9420 Reseda Boulevard, Suite 510, Northridge, CA 91324
818-718-1104
Michael@bachelorettepartyfun.com
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

There is no doubt that women are better planners in most cases than men. The majority of the bachelorette party, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner and wedding are planned by women with few exceptions. Recently, data has shown that there is now an increasing number of Brides-to-Be planning the bachelor party (www.bachelorpartyfun.com) for the groom on his "last night out" as a free bachelor. The big question is; how is the bride planning the party to make sure the groom will be happy with the orchestration of his pre-wedding party? Below I have listed some tips that may be helpful for the bride who is planning the event for her significant other:

What makes any party successful is catering to the group's interests as they will be the ones experiencing the party. In this case, the bride-to-be must know the interests of the groom and his friends to plan the "right" party. Does the groom love to play golf, see his favorite band in town, or go to his favorite bar/restaurant? This exploration should happen between the couple as well as inviting the best man and close friends of the bachelor to participate in making the best party possible.

Some brides have stated to me that planning the bachelor party makes them feel more at ease due to the old stereotype of men just wanting to see exotic dancers and disappearing for the evening with the statement, "What happens at the bachelor party, stays at the bachelor party" as portrayed in the classic Tom Hank's movie Bachelor Party. The bride-to-be can feel more in control by helping plan the bachelor bash for her significant other and it makes her feel a part of the event.

Decorations and gag gifts are a great addition to any bachelor party. There are a few Websites that can help in planning the supplies and favors such as a blow up ball n' chain, bachelor party hat, jailbird outfit, mardi gras beads, etc. Ordering them online or going out with a few girlfriends can be a fun experience and hilarious when the items are opened by the bachelor! Ordering these items early is a key to less stress and money because time seems to slip away when planning for the big day of the wedding!

At the site, www.BachelorPartyFun.com and www.bachelorpartygifts.com , recently there have been an increase in coed parties, which makes it fun when there are more couples or mostly single groups of friends that can hang out together. Both the bachelor and bachelorette can have a great time planning a party together in setting the venue, time, and schedule of party events.

Attention to the detail of planning is key for the groom to allow his bride to help plan the event. Such items as limos, venue reservations, flights, hotel, locations and decorations are usually worked on at the last minute if without a woman's influence. Yet, it is still important to have the bachelor or best man feel a part of the planning, give the men options, only plan the general schedule and leave the bachelor party games and activities up to the bachelor to plan.

Have a great time planning the bachelor party no matter how you plan the "Last Night Out" with your friends. It is one moment in time that can one of the most memorable times for the groom and his friends outside of the relationship he has with his bride-to-be.

Michael Lasky
I-Volution, Inc
9420 Reseda Boulevard, Suite 510, Northridge, CA 91324
818-718-1104
Michael@bachelorettepartyfun.com
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Behavior of a Bachelor(ette) Before the Last Night Out Reported by I-Volution, Inc
Tuesday February 12, 9:37 am ET
Tracking Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Consumer Online Trends in 2008


LOS ANGELES, Feb. 12 /PRNewswire/ -- A new study was conducted in the first quarter of 2008 by the largest network of bachelor and bachelorette party sites which tracks trends of men and women who are planning bachelor(ette) parties. I-Volution, Inc (www.ivolutioninc.com) which owns websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com, the two largest and longest running bachelor party and bachelorette party sites in a network of pre-wedding party websites, reports these findings from their 2007 year end statistics, including more than 4 million visitors during the year. According to the study completed in the last quarter of 2007 involving data from 388,000 visitors on www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, the top three viewed sections include bachelorette game ideas, male entertainment and bachelorette party invitations. Furthermore, a similar study in the last quarter of 2007 on www.bachelorpartyfun.com which included 253,631 visitors uncovered the top three online destinations as female entertainment, location ideas and general entertainment ideas (i.e., golf, bars, sporting events).

Due to an increasing fear of an economic recession, there has been an upward trend for bachelor(ette) parties to plan more home parties and be more economical, as compared to the previous year's data. Michael Lasky, president of I-Volution who speaks with a lot of bachelor and bachelorette party planners states, "The trend may be due to the increase in costs associated with travel and less disposable income." Lasky reports that he expects close to 5 million visitors to come to his network of pre-wedding party websites during 2008.

What are the most common new parties? They include attending musicals/plays, instructional exotic / pole dancing lessons, an in-home exotic male entertainer, spa day, or just a nice dinner and drinks out for the bachelorette party. The recent trends of bachelor party events include bar hopping, in-home female dancers, golf weekends, paintball and concert/sporting events.

Lasky states that his network of pre-wedding party sites includes the largest online party planning resources; nationwide limousine and entertainment directories, theme ideas, as well as the largest selection of bachelorette party games to help make planning the bachelorette party easier for the maid of honor and bridesmaids. Other great areas on their site include a free downloadable scavenger hunt game with over 60 ideas and a free "Oath of Secrecy" which can be printed out and used by the bachelorettes.

Interesting data on Lasky's pre-wedding party network includes the most popular destination for bachelor(ette) parties is Las Vegas, with 35% of the traffic visiting the Vegas sections. In addition, the most popular items sold on the www.bachelorpartyfun.com and www.bachelorettepartyfun.com sites include veils, games, tableware and drinkware. Lasky states, "I have created the bachelor(ette) party websites as a portal for consumers to receive nationwide information on planning their parties as well as providing over 320 party items for their bachelor and bachelorette parties, creating a one stop shop." The websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com statistically track where visitors go on the sites to increase information in areas that are most popular. In addition, Lasky has built www.groomsmen411.com and www.bridesmaid101.com with additional free information for the planning of pre-wedding parties.

Overall the bachelor and bachelorette party industry is substantially growing online in conjunction with the volume of weddings, even though the type of venues are ever changing. With today's free information on the net, sites like these make it less stressful and more fun for bachelor party and bachelorette party planners to be creative and resourceful.

About I-Volution, Inc
Located in Southern California, I-Volution, Inc owns the largest pre- wedding party websites which include www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, www.bachelorpartyfun.com, www.bridesmaid101.com and www.groomsmen411.com. I-Volution, Inc is considered a top portal of the pre-wedding party industry.

Michael Lasky
I-Volution, Inc
9420 Reseda Boulevard, Suite 510, Northridge, CA 91324
818-718-1104
Michael@bachelorettepartyfun.com
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

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Final Fling with a New Ring
Bachelorette and Bachelor Party Consumers Increase in Online Activity and Creative Party Planning

March 13th, 2007 Los Angeles - A new study was conducted in the first quarter of 2007 by the largest network of bachelor and bachelorette party sites which found that women and men are thinking of more alternatives to the standard bachelor(ette) "Last Night Out" parties. I-Volution, Inc (www.ivolutioninc.com) which owns websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com, the two largest bachelor(ette) party sites in a network of pre-wedding party bridal sites reports these findings from their end of 2006 statistics which include more than 4 million visitors during the year.

According to the study completed in the last quarter of 2006, there has been an increasing trend for bachelor(ette) parties to plan more creative festivities that do not include an exotic dancer as compared to the previous year's data. Michael Lasky, president of I-Volution, states, "This trend may be due to the increase in weddings and not wanting to plan the same type of party that a friend may have attended that included the typical "Last Night Out" festivities. Lasky reports that he expects close to 5 million visitors to come to his network of pre-wedding party websites during 2007.

What are the most common new parties? They include hiring an instructor for exotic dance lessons for the girls, spa day, going to a musical/play and going to a nice dinner. The bachelor party events now include more golf weekends, trips to resort locations, paintball and sporting events. Lasky states that his network of pre-wedding party sites include free information and directories as well as the largest selection of game ideas to help making planning easier for the maid of honor and bridesmaids as well as the groomsmen who are planning the festivities for their friend getting married.

Other interesting facts about Lasky's pre-wedding party network includes the most popular destination for bachelor(ette) parties is Las Vegas with 35% of the traffic visiting the Vegas sections. In addition, the most popular items sold on the www.bachelorpartyfun.com and www.bachelorettepartyfun.com sites include veils, naughty candy, games and gifts. Lasky states "My websites are the bachelor(ette) party portal for all to receive nationwide information on planning their parties as well as providing over 320 party items for their bachelor and bachelorette parties in creating a one stop shop." The websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com statistically track where visitors go on the sites to increase information in areas that are more popular.

Overall the bachelor and bachelorette party industry is substantially growing online in conjunction with the volume of weddings, even though the type of party events are changing. With today's technology, it is amazing that someone can plan an entire party for their friends through the Internet without having to pick up a telephone, open a phone book, or drive to a store.

Michael Lasky
I-Volution, Inc
9420 Reseda Boulevard, Suite 510, Northridge, CA 91324
818-718-1104
Michael@bachelorettepartyfun.com
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

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Bachelorette and Bachelor Party Consumers Significantly Using Internet More for Information and Purchasing Supplies.

June 1st, 2006 Los Angeles - A new study was conducted in the first quarter of 2006 by the largest network of bachelor and bachelorette party sites which found that women are using the Internet 51.9% more than last year to find bachelorette party supplies and information, while men are using the Internet only 24.6% more than last year to find bachelor party related information and products. I-Volution, Inc which owns websites www.bachelorettepartyfun.com and www.bachelorpartyfun.com, the two largest bachelor(ette) party sites in a network of pre-wedding party bridal sites found at www.bpfun.com reports these statistics from their first quarter. Michael Lasky, president of I-Volution, states, "I am not surprised about these statistics, especially since women appear to use the internet more than men for information gathering and shopping in the pre-wedding party field." Lasky reports that he expects over 4.7 million visitors to come to his network of pre-wedding party websites during 2006.

According to Michael Lasky, "My websites are a bachelor(ette) party portal to get nationwide information on transportation/limousines, nightclubs, restaurants, concerts, spas, strip clubs, game ideas as well as over 300 party items for their bachelor and bachelorette parties to make it a one stop shop." Many other sites also offer a wide range of information that make bachelor(ette) planning easier in the ever-growing party planning field.

The history of bachelor(ette) parties is thought to have originated with a bachelor dinner that was traditional in ancient Sparta (5th century) where soldiers would toast each other on the eve of a friend's wedding. Bachelorette parties grew out of this tradition starting with tea parties that evolved into very similar parties to the male-related bachelor party in current times. During the last few years, more and more bachelor(ette) party (also known as stag and hen parties in Europe) websites have been appearing, offering great information, ideas, novelty supplies and gifts to the bachelor and bachelorette marketplace.

According to the US Census Bureau and The Knot, there are over 2.3 million weddings in the US per year (over 6,200 weddings a day), the potential of 4.6 million bachelor(ette) parties, and 72 billion per year spent on weddings, it is no wonder why the online market is growing in conjunction with the increase in overall web users. When asked why there is a substancial difference in the relationship of males to females using bachelor(ette) online services, Michael Lasky from I-Volution stated, "Women are more information oriented. It is just like being lost while driving and asking for directions. Women are the first to use third party sources to gain increased information while men like to be more independent and stubborn with deciding what to plan without trying to get more help."

Not only has the traffic increased on the bachelorette party websites, but the type of events that occur during the bachelor(ette) parties has also changed. "The statistics show that women are more interested in focusing on a night out with their friends with events like spas, musicals, dinners, and now exotic dance lessons which has become very popular," states Lasky. The website www.bachelorettepartyfun.com statistically tracks where visitors go on the site to increase information in areas that are more popular. The bachelor party venues also changing with more men wanting to go on a golf retreat, concert, or resort than to have a night out to bars and exotic dancers. Las Vegas still holds as the number one US destination for bachelor and bachelorette parties.

With so many people using the Internet for pre-wedding party information, more and more party planning companies that take care of all of the bachelor, bachelorette and bridal party arrangments are appearing. Companies like Sinning in Vegas (http://www.sinninginvegas.com) plan "VIP" parties for bachelor(ette) parties which is helpful for those who have never been to Las Vegas or want to have everything planned by a company who has access to the top clubs and restaurants.

Overall, it seems that the bachelor and bachelorette party industry is here to stay and continue to substancially grow online in conjunction with the wedding industry. It is an amazing time to think that someone can go online and type one term into a search engine and plan an entire party for their friends without having to pick up a telephone or open a book.

Not Your Typical Bachelorette Party
By Sean Knox
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

In the last decade the term bachelorette party has become synonymous with wild parties, going to bars, exotic dancers and dressing the bride in blinking veils with adult party favors. The interesting history of the pre-wedding party dates back century's ago where the women would dress up in conservative dresses, carry umbrellas, and attend a tea party for the "bride-to-be". This event could have also been seen as the precursor to the bridal shower.

Bachelorette parties of today have swung back more to the middle ground where brides'- to-be are still dressing up, but planning more of a memorable time for their bachelorette party with their good friends. Below, I have listed some of the more fun and creative ideas that are becoming more popular with pre-wedding parties of today:

Treat Yourself To A Spa / Resort - If you and the girls feel more like getting pampered, there are many resorts and spas throughout the US that are great places to relax! This gives the girls time with the bachelorette as the center of focus.

Sail Away - There is nothing like a little weekend cruise with the girls. What's better than fun, sun, great food and your favorite friends around the bachelorette.

Nature Lover - Camping is another way to enjoy your party. Whether you choose to rough-it in tents or enjoy cabin craziness, you are sure to have an awesome time!

Slumber Party City - If you are planning on having a local party due to limited funds or just because. One great idea is to have the girls stay over at your house or a friend's house for a slumber party. Put in a fun "girly" movie or one of the bachelorette's favorites. There are also many games you can play with the girls that are centered on the wedding. One of the more favorites, "How Well Do You Know the Groom" is to write down a whole bunch of answers from the groom (prior to the party) and ask the bachelorette if she can guess these answers!

Hotel/Condo - Whether you enjoy the beach, mountains, or desert, you can always rent a condo or stay at a hotel. Some of the most visited spots for Bachelorette parties consist of: Palm Springs, Las Vegas, Martha's Vineyard, Florida, Texas (after the storms are over), Louisiana (after the storms are over) and Atlantic City.

Road Trip - There is nothing like a road trip with the girls. Just pile in one or more cars and you will be on your way to the destination of your choice. Tape or burn your favorite bachelorette party songs which make great gifts for the girls.

Around Town - Take the girls on a fun trip around town; go and treat yourself to a manicure, pedicure, massage, and shopping.almost heaven! There are many places such as Beauty Bar (located in Las Vegas, New York, Los Angeles, and San Francisco) where you can get a manicure while drinking martinis! What more fun of a way to celebrate the bachelorette party!

Concert or Play of Choice - One of the more cultured ideas is to attend your favorite concert or theater. Choose something that you know the bride-to-be will love and make a day out of getting ready, going to the event and then going out after for dinner.

Visit a Winery - One of my favorites is to find a favorite winery and take the girls for wine tasting. You can also go in style and get a limo for you and the girls while going to multiple wineries to enjoy the ambiance of each place you visit.

The most important tip to remember, no matter what type of bachelorette party you create, is to enjoy the moment with the bride-to-be and do something that fits the bachelorette's personality, since it is all about the bachelorette. You are sure to have a great time!

Bacheloretiquette - The Guide to Bachelorette Party and Bachelor Party Planning
Michael Lasky - President
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com / www.bridesmaid101.com

February 2006 - Last year my company helped with planning over 20,000 bachelor and bachelorette parties. A few questions frequently came up and I thought it would be helpful to discuss the top five bachelor(ette) issues that many wonder about:

1) Who pays for the bachelor(ette) party? Many bridesmaids, maid-of-honor, best man, and groomsmen have emailed me and have asked if they have to pay for the whole bachelor(ette) party themselves if they are planning the pre-wedding party. The tradition is no. Usually everyone who attends the party is supposed to help pay for the bride-to-be or groom-to-be. It is not common for someone to have to cover the bill unless they are very generous. Since everyone is participating, everyone should help split the bill for the bachelor(ette). It is also helpful for the person(s) planning the pre-wedding party to ask everyone for money in advance since I have seen many get stuck with the majority of the bill if they wait until the party or after the party. My suggestion is to plan ahead and get everyone's email and phone number in advance so you can contact them about the amount as well as when you would like that amount by. It's the least the party-goers can do for those who are taking their time planning the event.

2) Do I have to purchase a gift for the bachelor(ette)? It is customary to purchase a gift for the bridal shower but not for the bachelorette party or bachelor party. The bachelor(ette)'s "gift" is his/her party and everyone chipping in to pay for his/her memorable time. There is no need to purchase a gift. However, many do purchase party supplies, favors, and gag gifts for the event which can be found in local stores or on the internet by typing the words "bachelorette party" or "bachelor party". Again, everyone should chip in if supplies, decorations or gag gifts are going to be purchased and a budget should be formed to know how much everyone wants to spend on supplies. The common amount is around $45-$65 all together which comes out at an average of $5-$10 each. Again, the planner of the pre-wedding party should ask for those going to chip in early before the event.

3) How do I plan a bachelor(ette) party for those who are younger than 21? Many times there are some friends or family who fall into the under 21 range. I feel it is very important not to leave anyone who wants to go out of the pre-wedding party. A way to front this issue is to make the bachelorette party or bachelor party a two event night. The first part of the night would be for dinner with all the guys and/or girls at one of the bride's or groom's favorite restaurants. After the dinner is over, those who are under 21 can complete the night with the others going out on the town to bars or clubs. Another way is to do activities that do not have an age limit including going to see a play, concert, play golf, spa, home party or weekend getaway.

4) What should the bachelorette party be about? The big question is, "What does the bachelor(ette) want to do for his/her party?" There are so many times when the bridesmaids or groomsmen want to plan a crazy night out when the bachelor(ette) does not want to get crazy. The important thing to remember about the party is that it is for the bachelor(ette) and not as much for his/her friends. It is absolutely okay to ask the bachelor ette) what they want to do for their party. If you are still into surprising them, get a general idea and keep the rest of the evening a surprise but still appropriate for what they want to do. There have been way too many parties where the bachelor(ette) is upset by the end of the night because of what his/her friends planned when all they wanted to do is hang out with their friends at a place they enjoy. Remember to plan for the bride-to-be and groom-to-be's personality.

5) Does there have to be a bachelor(ette) party? A majority of the brides and grooms do have a pre-wedding party besides the bridal shower but it is absolutely okay to not have a bachelor or bachelorette party. Many who get married for the second time do not have bachelor(ette) parties. Some make the wedding shower a couple's event and have everyone attend without having a bachelor(ette) party. I went to a combined bachelor party and bachelorette party in Las Vegas where it was a fun couples weekend with everyone always staying together and just having a great time without the traditional "Girl's Night Out" or "Last Night Out" agenda.

Any way you plan, the most important rule is to have a fun and safe time with lots of memories. The pre- wedding parties are a great way for everyone who is involved in the wedding to meet. The parties should be as stress free as possible since it is all about having a great time with some great friends.

Bachelorette Party: Multicultural Product Awareness
By Michael Lasky
www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

January 2006 - It seems that the bachelorette party product companies are finally getting smart on creating non-white products for the bachelorettes to choose from when shopping for their bachelorette party. Within the last year, there has been much more awareness to create items that are of the male or female anatomy in colors such as brown and black as well as the pictures on the packaging which have Hispanic, Black, and Asian women/bachelorettes on them. "I feel that the bachelorette party industry is way behind the wedding industry who is more sensitive to designing ads, products and accessories for women-of-color," states Michael Lasky, President of www.bachelorettepartyfun.com, the largest bachelorette party portal and supply company on the Internet. Mr. Lasky goes on to state that, "We purchase every item we can that is non-white so women have a choice of what type of products they want to select that are culturally sensitive."

With over 2.5 million weddings a year and over 40 Billion spent per year on weddings, it would make sense even from a financial point of view for suppliers to take into consideration race and culture in creating their wedding related items! From a societal point of view, it is sad that our world is not more sensitive to multicultural issues and has only touched the surface of being more aware. As for the bachelorette party market, only a handful of vendors are now creating packaging, products and marketing materials that represent the new era of sensitivity. Hopefully we will see this change over time!

Top Bachelorette Party Games
By Michael Lasky

www.bachelorettepartyfun.com / www.bachelorpartyfun.com

February 2006 - Planning the Bachelorette Party does not have to be expensive to have a great time. Below I have listed some of the top games that can be created by the bachelorette party planner as to save money while still having a memorable time. It is important to take the bachelorette's comfort level into consideration before planning each game so you don't make her feel uncomfortable for her own bachelorette party. It is also important to take into consideration where you are having the party since you may not have an audience of strangers if you are at a home party which would change the type of games that you play. The top five bachelorette party games are as follows:

1) 'Lick for a Buck' T-Shirt - A Bachelorette Standard! All you need is a white t-shirt for the bachelorette and some lifesavers. Take a little water and stick them all over the shirt as well as writing the statement "Lick for a Buck". Have the bachelorette wear the shirt out and collect the money from each man who licks off a lifesaver!

2) Scavenger Hunt Game - Another bachelorette party game standard is the Scavenger Hunt. Send the bride- to-be on a scavenger hunt to come back with items that she finds from people at the bar or restaurant as well as dares. Some of the top ideas include:

1) Have A Guy Serenade You.
2) Have A Guy Give You A Condom.
3) Have A Guy Give You His Underwear/Boxers.
4) Kiss A Guy With The Same Name As The Groom.
5) Order a 'Sex On The Beach' Shot from a Bartender (Yell out your order for others to hear).
6) Dance with a Stranger Even If There Is No Music.
7) Do a Body Shot with a Stranger who has the Same Name as the Groom.
8) Have Someone Tattoo Your Butt with a Funny Saying (Use a pen).
9) Have A Guy Give You A Picture Of His Girlfriend.
10) Have 5 Guys Write Their Philosophy on Marriage on Napkins

3) Mardi Gras Madness - Have the bachelorette showered in Mardi Gras Beads and ask the men to take off their shirts for a strand of beads. A great way to give those men some of their own medicine!

4) Funniest Story of the Bachelorette - Have everyone tell a story about the bachelorette and see who has the juiciest story. It is also fun to play where girls make stories up and the girls have to guess if it is a true one or not!

5) 10 Questions about how well you know the Bride/Groom - Have the maid of honor select many tough questions about the bride and groom (created before the party) and see how many girls can get them right!

The most important point about the bachelorette party is to have a great time no matter what games you play or where you go. While at the bachelorette party, always make sure the games are planned for the bachelorette's temperament as not to make her feel uncomfortable at her own party. Have a great time!